In the past 100 years, the average life expectancy of humans has increased by 30 years. How can we make good use of these 30 years to live a new life? Irlan adult educator Aidehua. Kaili proposed the concept of "Third Act". She believes that there are three periods of life. The first is to rely on others to grow up; the second is to develop independent life; the third is to be independent and able to rely on each other, to help others, inherit and pay for oneself. Third, life will not happen naturally. You have to start your own business and prepare in advance.
The next few weeks of "Orange Generation" will take you into the lives of three editors, Chen Maoxiong, the pioneer of Taiwan's corporate coaching, writer Li Weiwen, and the Middle Times Opening Paper, to see how they manage their third life.
"Sorry, I went on the "Grandpa Mission" in the morning." On the day of the visit, Chen Maoxiong apologized as soon as he arrived at the visiting appointment. Chen Maoxiong, 66, had a kind smile. Compared with the young photos of him on the Internet, the lines of his face in front of him were softer, warm and gentle like a wise man full of life wisdom in movies.
Chen Maoxiong is a pioneer in corporate coaches in Taiwan. He is a well-known corporate supervisor in the three places in the Taiwan Strait. He has taught senior executives in well-known companies such as Taiwan Electric Power, HP, Dell, 3M, and Xirui Pharmaceutical Factory. He is a small number of counselors with high-level supervisor experience in China. He has published two books and has a recognized professional and self-brand in the field of corporate coaching. He does not have his own office and has always been a freelance worker.
"Have you ever wanted to set up a company?" asked the reporter. "Someone has suggested it, but I think it's so good at the moment and life is very free," said Chen Maoxiong.
Chen Maoxiong spent a lot of time in his career and tried hard to find destiny to create a third life of freedom, self-reality and self-reality.Chen Maoxiong, before the age of 50, was a life-threatening group in the eyes of others. After graduating from the Economic System of NTU, he went to the United States to obtain an MBA. After returning to Taiwan, he worked at IBM and became a senior supervisor at the age of 33. He had excellent work performance, fast promotion and generous salary.
But confusion also followed Chen Maoxiong's career and rose all the way, starting at the age of 40, he found that his enthusiasm for work had faded, and he no longer talked about his work when he was young. He did not like himself who lost his direction, so he left his original company, but after changing two work areas, he still did not return to his former passion.
He works and looks for "destiny". He asks people, reads books, takes classes, and even tells fortunes until he goes on the course of self-exploration. He understands that he has never known himself. So at the age of 50, he returned to the campus as a full-time student, studying as a bachelor of business psychology, and obtained the qualification of a counseling psychologist.
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Contacting in the field of counselors When corporate coachesentered the field of counselors, Chen Maoxiong was amazed to discover that the field of coaching (Coaching), which cleverly combined his experience in psychological counselors and senior managers. Therefore, he embarked on his own unique professional path in the era when corporate coaches were not yet prevalent, and became the first corporate coach in Taiwan to have a certificate of senior managers and consulting psychological counselors at the same time.
50 years old will turn to the track of life, when will you retire? Chen Maoxiong smiled and said, "I will continue to do it until I can't." He liked his work so much that he found his emotions after discussing and found his attitude towards his emotions, and after adjustment, he finally stopped suffering in his emotions. When the vice president of a listed company talked about the meeting, he found work blind spots, changed the communication mode, and then developed potential, improving confidence and leadership efficiency. These moments of helping others transform and grow are greatly satisfied.
Looking back now, Chen Maoxiong finally understood that what he really liked was a job that was related to people and could have profoundly connected with people. When he was young, he did not do the job he liked the most or the things he did best.
Recognize yourself and enjoy the love of bringing Sun LeIt was not until this age that he realized that there is no destiny in life that has been determined. Instead of "finding destiny", it is better to devote yourself to "live out your intentions" every day. He suggests that middle-aged readers start with understanding themselves, and develop various life roles such as parents, children, friends, supervisors, etc., "start with the end" to find goals for each role, and plan their own life blueprints and personal missions. But all changes must also be considered and considered in reality and economic terms. Chen Maoxiong had communicated with his wife before turning the track, and the two of them decided to settle down when the financial situation at home.
"Now is the happiest time in life." Chen Maoxiong is now the grandfather of a 3-year-old and 1-year-old lovely child. He is professionally doing his favorite job and enjoying the "happiest" life.
What is the ideal third life like? Chen Maoxiong quoted the view of "positive psychology" and believed that when he could have positive emotions, devote his mission, profound human connection, and feel the meaning of life and a sense of accomplishment, he would have a happy life.
But such a life must be prepared in advance, and don’t wait for retirement to think before thinking. The earlier you start, the better.
Chen Maoxiong agreed with psychology master Owen. Yalong's idea, thinking that people are afraid of death because there are regrets in life. He encourages everyone to complete unfinished things and minimizes regrets in life. However, in the pursuit process, you must maintain self-awareness, find out the habits that hinder yourself, learn to reduce the law and let go, and focus on what life really wants to accomplish.. Finally, he smiled and reminded that no matter what the plan is, don't ignore the importance of physical health. "I'm not afraid of death, I'm afraid of death." Having a healthy body is the foundation for the development of the third life.
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